- Apr 7, 2009
ok, so my guy is depressed... i get that. however, its been one thing after another with him, as to he not getting a job. he's gone fishing "three days in a row" now, and is he looking for work... hmm, nope. why? why is he not looking for work. yes, he's depressed, but how long do i have to live alone for, and be alone, and does getting better mean he shouldn't be working? who's in the wrong here, am i bad for being po'd that i go to work everyday, and that i pay for sh*t everytime we need money, and that i want a family, me,my kids and this guy. is he ready, or not.... not being physical with me for months, says its depression... i know he watched p*rn quite a bit and wonder if he still does, as he still continues to lie about things like that, i think. i don't know... should i stay or should i go... i love him, but maybe i'm not strong enough for this depression thing? help!!