pretty girl so why do i need attention/reasurance about looks!

[louise]

sorry to keep posting but i'm nw on here so thought i'd ask!!
like i aid i'm not an ugly girl always been a bit over weight which seriously bothers me anyway i a so happily married bt i always want other people's men or women to tell me how pretty i am or how nice i look. i dont understand it cause my husband gives me more attention than anyone possible could. i feel so bad that i feel like this cause the nly person i want is him. so why do i want everyone to think it. it makes me feel so much better. again......feeling guilty!!!
thanks people for help xxxxx

 

[huggybear65]

Louise,my ex girlfriend was a bit like you,but she was more than a bit overweight,but to me she was still pretty in my eyes,in the end she lost 84lbs
(6 stone) and we split up over something stupid.
Even after the weight loss she still considered herself inadequate and had no self esteem.
I am like that too but it was a case of do as I say not as I do ....