• Share. Be Supported. Recover.

    We are a friendly, safe community supporting each other's mental health. We are open 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.

poorly daughter i feel so guilty

N

noodlepixie

Guest
i wrote in my thread about my daughter not eating well she stopped drinking and had to be rushed to hospital on sunday by ambulance, she drank tiny amounts on sunday, the staff made us go home as she was going to be staying overnight i told them about her behaviour problems and her saying she wants to die.. (shes 9) well when we went i phoned a while after to se if she was ok and she had kicked off i could hear her shouting in the background. my hubby went back and stayed the night, i went back in yesterday found out she'd tried to jump out of the window (4 floors up) she was discharged yesterday, no one from mental health saw her cos she has an appt with them in june. we have a mental health nurse coming to see her tomorrow. shes been told if she goes back to hospital she has to have a drip from her nose to her stomach..

im so mad i tried to tell this same mental health nurse months ago what she was like and he fobbed me off.. (didn't believe me more like)

now i feel guilty its my fault shes like this, i am struggling to help, im irriatable, confused want to scream shout and cry all at once, im having to be the sane sensible one and i can't i don't want any of this for her im so confused... sorry its so long.:(:(:(:(
 
L

lonelyandlost

Well-known member
Joined
May 8, 2009
Messages
233
Location
Bradford
Aww I am not surprised you are feeling as you are. Hope the appointment tomorrow goes well and that you can get the help that you and your daughter needs.

I am not sure if this site can help out any with reading info etc
http://www.camhs.org.uk/
 
Enpi

Enpi

Well-known member
Joined
May 16, 2009
Messages
83
Location
I.R.Iran
I'm too young to have children but I once had a friend who kept trying to kill herself and that was one of the worst times for me. It's very difficult to see your loved ones suffer. I might not be able to help you in any way but I'd like you to know that I care. Let us know about how the appointment goes :hug:
 
G

grace68

Well-known member
Joined
May 12, 2009
Messages
599
Location
yorkshire
i really hope today goes ok .
my heart goes out to you, your husband, and your daughter.
you may have had your own problems, but your daughter's problems are surely not your 'fault'.
whatever the causes, you are there for her now, you and her dad.
you obviously love her enormously, which is what she needs right now.
:hug:
 
N

noodlepixie

Guest
I'd firstly like to thank you for all your kind messages of support.. regarding the camhs nurse meeting its boggled my brain to be honest were monitoring her eating and drinking via a diary, we have a appointment with the camhs consultant at the beginning of june, the nurse he said about seeing cases like this all the time.. we found it quite stressful he asked me if id mentioned to her about my own illness, i got a bit irritated by this and snapped no i keep my problems to myself and don't let things show in front of my children..
He said we would be having a cafs meeting soon, hes also coming again tomorrow..
my health visitor came round and was really helpful... i want only the best help for her..

Im really struggling with it all my head is spinning and i feel guilty cos i don't want my daughter to end up like me and i feel guilty for feeling bad cos its not about me... aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh :cry:
 
G

grace68

Well-known member
Joined
May 12, 2009
Messages
599
Location
yorkshire
i'm not surprised your head is spinning :cry:

i hope your meeting today goes ok :hug:
 
Enpi

Enpi

Well-known member
Joined
May 16, 2009
Messages
83
Location
I.R.Iran
It must be very painful for you, but don't lose hope. It'll be okay.
 
jax

jax

Well-known member
Joined
Nov 23, 2008
Messages
868
Location
Belfast, N.Ireland
NoodleP,
I really feel for you. 9 years old is such a young age for her to be like this and not getting the proper mental health treatment!!. I find it almost hard to believe that she is getting so 'mistreated' or maybe the correct way to put it is 'not treated' by the mental health system. My god, she tried to jump out a window, she is not eating or drinking!! Just what else has to happen to the little girl before some health professional steps in and helps her?? I hope that you get her the treatment she need. Good luck.
Love, Jacqui
 
Similar threads
Thread starter Title Forum Replies Date
M Daughter asking Questions Bipolar Forum 2
L My 17 year old daughter doesn’t love me. Bipolar Forum 5
E Frank Bruno's daughter talks to BBC about Dad's Bipolar Bipolar Forum 104
S what is wrong with our daughter Bipolar Forum 10
C Daughter ill Bipolar Forum 5
C Anyone else feel about 100 years old? Bipolar Forum 7
MillGuard Why Do I Feel Like I Have No Control? Bipolar Forum 3
L I feel what my sister felt before she committed suicide Bipolar Forum 38
Phillmitchell86 How does your bi polar make you feel ? Bipolar Forum 39
M Feel Like An IDIOT!!! Bipolar Forum 1
G I feel so unwell... Bipolar Forum 11
BlackChalice47 Anyone else feel like... Bipolar Forum 6
P I do not feel I have Bipolar at all Bipolar Forum 25
T I'm finally starting to feel hopeful! Bipolar Forum 14
T Question for people who take medication: Do you feel "normal" Bipolar Forum 2
Bonnie23 I feel detached from myself and not with it today 😢 Bipolar Forum 6
T I have bi polar and i feel like i can never live a normal life Bipolar Forum 6
OmniscientNihilist bipolar moods feel like multiple personality Bipolar Forum 3
wraziel Why I feel better in november-december? Bipolar Forum 5
ScreamingMime I feel like a horrible friend and family member Bipolar Forum 3
SlowlyUnravels How does it feel after the meds work? Bipolar Forum 7
HLon99 Feel better, but making no progress in life. Bipolar Forum 12
h_put2021 Feel like I’m spiraling Bipolar Forum 8
T Unable to feel love (more or less) Bipolar Forum 2
N Wanting to just feel connected Bipolar Forum 9
S I feel like I scare people Bipolar Forum 6
floater Feel hunted Bipolar Forum 7
Carol1952 No matter how awful i feel I love all of you and I mean that too. Bipolar Forum 5
M Will life ever feel worth living? Is there hope? Bipolar Forum 5
S I want to feel more alive and actually have a manic episode. Bipolar Forum 3
S Can you feel your mood change Bipolar Forum 6
P I dont feel like i need to sleep Bipolar Forum 10
M Been a while...starting to feel ill again :( CBD oil??? Bipolar Forum 13
T Do you feel me, wherever you are Bipolar Forum 1
T Feel helpless managing my Bipolar II Bipolar Forum 3
P I feel that people can read my mind Bipolar Forum 4
X I feel another episode of depression coming on... Bipolar Forum 3
S What does hypomania feel like? Bipolar Forum 7
M I feel better than ever!! Bipolar Forum 3
L I FEEL like I’m alone in the world Bipolar Forum 1
A Feel like running away Bipolar Forum 3
M What does your depression feel like? Bipolar Forum 25
G I feel trapped Bipolar Forum 3
B Making friends when you feel like the town freak show? Bipolar Forum 1
E Does anyone else feel like they can't do anything? Bipolar Forum 8
S I feel ok now Bipolar Forum 2
W Am I depressed? I can't cry and I barely feel emotion Bipolar Forum 1
O I feel like i have two personalities fighting w eachother to be “normal”. Bipolar Forum 7
D new member. wanting to "dump" my writing. feel free to comment or not Bipolar Forum 2
megirl feel blah and bored with life Bipolar Forum 29

Similar threads

Top