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mami5

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Have just opened an e-mail from ex. He's planning on taking my son this summer because he'll be 16. Can't cope with this now. Want to od so badly right now.
 

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Mami, remember what I said to you the other day about writing things down and ripping it up?

Why not try that again and write about your ex?

xxx
 
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Can he do that? Surely your son can choose where he wants to live when he's 16. :hug: xxx
Please don't od. :hug: xxxx
 
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It won't stop him taking my son. This pain is unbearable. Crying tearlessly here.
 
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Can he do that? Surely your son can choose where he wants to live when he's 16. :hug: xxx
Please don't od. :hug: xxxx
He says son wants to live with him. He told me before that he doesn't. He's a very persuasive man though. You don't say no to him. Believe me. He's so controlling.
 
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Well if he's planning on taking your son against his wishes and yours then the law is on your side. Worse comes to worse you could inform the police, or at least threaten to. :hug: xxxx
 
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He sound like a nasty piece of work; he should respect your wishes or at least those of your son. :hug: xxx
 
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Well if he's planning on taking your son against his wishes and yours then the law is on your side. Worse comes to worse you could inform the police, or at least threaten to. :hug: xxxx
Like I said he'll persuade my son to go. So can't inform anyone or stop him. He's already taken one two years ago, now he wants his brother. I can't cope with this. Feel sick.
 
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Please try to stay strong i know it must be really hard right now but your a very strong person please stay safe x x x x
 
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I guess the main worry would be if he persuaded your son, then there wouldn't be much you could do. :hug: xxx
 
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I feel like giving up. I'm losing everything. In another 2 years he'll take youngest son then I'll have nothing. Might as well give in now. Fighting a losing battle here.
 
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Hang in there mami, it hasn't happened yet. :hug: xxx
You are stronger than you think. :hug: xxx
 
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Your son will always be your son; he will always love you and want to spend time with his lovely mum. :hug: xxxxxxxxxxxx
 
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Hang in there mami, it hasn't happened yet. :hug: xxx
You are stronger than you think. :hug: xxx
No I'm not! Not when it comes to my kids. I have given them everything and this is how they repay me. I can't live without them. Have given 27 years of my life to raising my kids. I'll be nothing without them. Might as well die now.
 
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