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pfft. rant about "friends"

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i went to meet my footy team today.. past few times they have been out i didn't go so i missed out on all the jokes .. so obviously i didn't have a clue what they were talking about half the time.. a few of them also decided to take the piss out of my motorbike (which they haven't seen) and its my pride and joy ..the fact they are making a joke out of it upsets me. I also had a purple jacket on..and they took the piss out of that aswell. great. ... one of them kept pestering me to try it on. so obviously i said no and said if they were that keen they should go to the shop i bought it from.. when she was pestering me everyone else seemed to join in and that means everyone else was looking at me. couldn't wait to get home tbh. soo glad i didn't stay out longer ... tbh im upset about it all.. i was proud of myself for going out.. and then when i do.. this happens ..
 
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Hey Pffft,
You're not alone in this-I'm not to keen of being taken the p*ss out of either-never have been and never will be! I know some people think it is 'just a bit of banter' but for people like us, it's horrid, isn't it??

Think you dealt with it really well-telling them to go to the shop to try the jacket on-that's a good comeback! :p
 
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What a bunch of twits. Don't let them being "funny" spoil your evening, you did do really well to get out.
Maybe they're a bit jealous of the bike and jacket, I mean if was that bad why would someone want to try it on?

You know it's these situations that it really annoys me that people resort to making fun of others in the name of 'humour'. It's not humour, it's cheap and dickish behaviour. Someone can be doing really well, or be feeling really vulnerable but trying, and then some obnoxious prick has to go and spoilt it. /Rant over
 
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thanks to you both... them comments make me feel like im not alone! i was more annoyed that the said person.. when she walked in i thought to myself.. ooh im glad she is here.. (because she wasnt in on past jokes) and some how she was center of attention... so i felt like the only one that wasn't part of it... im soo disapointed in them all. its horrible when it happens because i dont think they realize how much they have offended me... another friend (im closer too her) was also bringing to light that i dont have a job.. i am on ESA and dont want people knowing because... some people are horrible and would make a thing of it.. like... "there is nothing wrong with you" .. its like fuckk off .. i put a front on.

sorry for ranting :\
 
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It's ok-rant away! :)

You know what, you can actually feel sorry for these 'friends' as they are the ones who don't have enough brains in their head to actually realise how they might be making you feel. Quite frankly, they're acting like school kids!!

I know that you certainly wouldn't do that to them, but that is because you care about people, therefore you are the better person and have the knowledge that they don't!
 
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its times like this i wish i had friends (outside of the internet) that are depressed.. i feel misunderstood fallen... and it isnt nice... and to a degree i do fallen.. i feel like i am still learning about myself and feel like i am soo deep compared to other people ... (baring in mind i never blow my own trumpet!) .. and now i feel like i actually dont deserve it...

thanks for being there for me fallen ... i dont know who you are... heck i could of walked past you in the street.. but i do know you are fab..and i wish i could have a friend like you .thanks fallen :hug:
 
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i like this topic its really good..............
 
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