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My aunt reckons if she drinks half pints she should have rounds bought for her but shouldn't have to buy a round.

The unspecified people are out of touch with reality with lack of insight and don't tell the truth.

They are not themselves even other people say this.

Life is only fair to some people.
 
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That's taking advantage.... Isn't it?
 
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I invited one of my aunt's to a do later in the year and she said it was too far away, in date, to say so I made an alternative invite and said she could pick her date which she didn't answer. My mum sent her an invite and my aunt suggested taking up the invite when my original invite was for.

Another aunt told me off and kicked off ten years after I had sent her a birthday card saying she hates the card. I wouldn't have sent anything rude.

The unspecified people are out of touch with reality with lack of insight and don't tell the truth. They are not themselves.
 
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Midsomer Murders - the pathologist tells someone she can't get enough dead bodies - does that make her homicidal?

Friend and her husband still find it hilarious nearly twenty years after constantly telling me one of their former colleagues fancied me.

Friend's husband also once offered me thousands of pounds to go to bed with him. I declined. I wonder if they find that as funny too or whether my friend's selective memory comes into play. Sadly my friend is concerned she has early onset dementia.

Do you think Social Workers would like to be called resourceful or psychotic for that matter. As they think it's so kind of them to say it about other people.
 
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Midsomer Murders - the pathologist tells someone she can't get enough dead bodies - does that make her homicidal?

Friend and her husband still find it hilarious nearly twenty years after constantly telling me one of their former colleagues fancied me.

Friend's husband also once offered me thousands of pounds to go to bed with him. I declined. I wonder if they find that as funny too or whether my friend's selective memory comes into play. Sadly my friend is concerned she has early onset dementia.

Do you think Social Workers would like to be called resourceful or psychotic for that matter. As they think it's so kind of them to say it about other people.
Perhaps the same female friend will remember the time, whilst she was with her partner, she asked me to French kiss her. Perhaps she and her husband will find that very amusing too.
 
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The evidence is that mental health staff and some of their detainees only want to feel unrequited love and have people be nasty to them.
 
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Some years ago a former manager said in front of everyone at work that all men would be weird and unkind to me. Very bizarre thing to say. That manager's significant other was and may still be a married senior NHS manager. They made me do the work which my predecessor shared with two other teams. They didn't and probably still don't like people going out. They also lost my rent money.
 
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One of my colleagues spent considerable time telling me I am too old and ugly. Perhaps he doesn't envisage getting to my age?
 
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There is a customer services assistant who found it hysterically funny that one of her customers is incontinent to the point where assistant laughed in the customer’s face. For this she got a raise. The assistant is known to want to be sectioned she thinks it’s so good.

My dad always says his father was abusive towards him which is shown by the fact that my father has hardly any teeth left. His parents just didn’t look after them.
 
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She asked me if I am alright and I said yes. She made a point of saying she is alright but the point is that I have never locked anyone up and she has and she doesn't think that is normal. She criticised me for being quieter than her when she wouldn't let me get a word in.

I passed by a charity stand and when two others passed it by the workers shouted not feeling friendly then. I don't know why they think insulting others will help them get donations. I certainly won't give to them in future. Whereas I might have done if they'd been nice.
 
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My aunt told us she was going away to a secret location. I said to mum it was probably a secret because aunt didn't want to meet us and mum said yes.
 
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My manager is friends with everyone apart from me. That is a typical response to me from people. Mental health services say I have a poor support network. My family don't want anything to do with me no one does. My manager probably only tolerates me at best. What a cold life. I defy anyone to prove that someone cares about me it just isn't possible.
 
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So my 'f'riend' said a date and time she could meet on an email trail and she emailed me the trail saying what time were we meeting because she had forgotten when she could have just looked back at the trail. She had initially set the time to meet anyway.
 
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