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BurningPassion
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An old friend from when I was 18 tracked me down on Facebook. We exchanged a few messages and then met up. The thing is that this friend is the type of person you don't want your parents or your partner to meet. We used to smoke weed and do other things we shouldn't have when we were younger. However , 7 years have passed. I've changed and moved on and have a career etc. He on the otherhand is exactly the same. He smokes weed every day. He never has enough money, has a kid too, living on housing allowance and a crap job
He wants to meet up again but to be honest I don't want to. I sound like a complete ahole saying that but I just don't like him anymore, his personality is not pleasant at all, he has a bad attitude problem and hes always trying to get me to smoke or do class A's, exactly like he did when I was younger but I was naive back then. I'm a lot more aware of people now. I also noticed when I met up with him the once he is completly deluded, his views I disagree with, he is paranoid that the world is against him (thats what weed does to you). He is also very negative in his personality. Generally hes a bad influence I don't want in my life at all!
I've put it off by making excuses ie; I haven't got enough money or i'm busy but he just won't give up! He keeps sending me messages on facebook. How can I tell him nicely? The thing is, I know he has a temper and he also knows where I live! I don't want him turning up on my doorstep drunk or under the influence of something and making a scene in my neighborhood, which he is very capable of.
What should I do? I'm thinking just ignore him but that will piss him off. I could just be straight with him and say we are two different people now. I dont know
It feels kinda like a ghost from my previous life has returned but I want to forget this previous life because i have moved on..for the better
He wants to meet up again but to be honest I don't want to. I sound like a complete ahole saying that but I just don't like him anymore, his personality is not pleasant at all, he has a bad attitude problem and hes always trying to get me to smoke or do class A's, exactly like he did when I was younger but I was naive back then. I'm a lot more aware of people now. I also noticed when I met up with him the once he is completly deluded, his views I disagree with, he is paranoid that the world is against him (thats what weed does to you). He is also very negative in his personality. Generally hes a bad influence I don't want in my life at all!
I've put it off by making excuses ie; I haven't got enough money or i'm busy but he just won't give up! He keeps sending me messages on facebook. How can I tell him nicely? The thing is, I know he has a temper and he also knows where I live! I don't want him turning up on my doorstep drunk or under the influence of something and making a scene in my neighborhood, which he is very capable of.
What should I do? I'm thinking just ignore him but that will piss him off. I could just be straight with him and say we are two different people now. I dont know

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