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Ladybug

Ladybug

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i took a pregrnacy test
it came up as invaid
im so scared, i cant get another one until tomorrow
i dont know what do
i mean i do if i am pregnant i cant keep it
i cant even look after myself
i would have to get an abortion
and i know there are other options like adoption
but if my parents found out which they would
i would have to move out
i know i shouldnt panik until i take another test
but i am
im freaking out
the guys who it would be isnt talking to me
hes just started a new relationship
would i tell him i dont know
im freaking out !
 
emski

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Hey try not to freak out. Invalid could mean that the kit is knackered. If it was me I'd be taking it back and asking for a new one free of charge. Take care and try not to panic :hug:
 
iffybob

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I agree with emski ... you dont know anything yet ...

.. please try not to fret too much till you can get a re-test ...

.... :flowers:
 
bubbling under

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Retest in a few days, it needs to be done first time you go to the loo in the morning, mid flow. You're in eastleigh, go to poundland and get a bunch of theirs. They all work the same, it's only done by the relevant hormone affecting the strip. How old are you sweetheart?

Pm me if you need help, I am not a million miles away .
 
Ladybug

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im only 18
i cant even look after myself
dont even know how to use a bloody washing machine because my parents do it
if i am i have no clue what im gunna do, ive always said i would get an abortion but thinking about it i dunno if i could, i mean theres a huge difference between taking the morning after pill and an abortion.
 
iffybob

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So far you have just had an invalid result .....

... just wait till you can get a retest ...

then ... IF it is possitive, then you need to find out what your choices are ...

.... :flowers:
 
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aww matey i know its scary but you dont know for sure yet. :hug:

as BU says use the test in the morning?

how far are you late?
 
Ladybug

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im only a week late but i have been late in two years, im always on time

i know i should try and calm down but im a chronic worrier.
 
bubbling under

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Just out of interest, what tests are you using?
 
emski

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Nice one! Bet you're so relieved! really chuffed for you ladybug :clap:(y):hug:
 
emski

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Aww sweetheart, I think it's a normal female reaction to feel like that.

Hope you are ok x :hug:
 
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