oh crap

[Ladybug]

i took a pregrnacy test
it came up as invaid
im so scared, i cant get another one until tomorrow
i dont know what do
i mean i do if i am pregnant i cant keep it
i cant even look after myself
i would have to get an abortion
and i know there are other options like adoption
but if my parents found out which they would
i would have to move out
i know i shouldnt panik until i take another test
but i am
im freaking out
the guys who it would be isnt talking to me
hes just started a new relationship
would i tell him i dont know
im freaking out !

 

[emski]

Hey try not to freak out. Invalid could mean that the kit is knackered. If it was me I'd be taking it back and asking for a new one free of charge. Take care and try not to panic

 

[iffybob]

I agree with emski ... you dont know anything yet ...

.. please try not to fret too much till you can get a re-test ...

....

 

[bubbling under]

Retest in a few days, it needs to be done first time you go to the loo in the morning, mid flow. You're in eastleigh, go to poundland and get a bunch of theirs. They all work the same, it's only done by the relevant hormone affecting the strip. How old are you sweetheart?

Pm me if you need help, I am not a million miles away .

 

[Ladybug]

im only 18
i cant even look after myself
dont even know how to use a bloody washing machine because my parents do it
if i am i have no clue what im gunna do, ive always said i would get an abortion but thinking about it i dunno if i could, i mean theres a huge difference between taking the morning after pill and an abortion.

 

[iffybob]

So far you have just had an invalid result .....

... just wait till you can get a retest ...

then ... IF it is possitive, then you need to find out what your choices are ...

....

 

[Ainsworth]

aww matey i know its scary but you dont know for sure yet.

as BU says use the test in the morning?

how far are you late?

 

[Ladybug]

im only a week late but i have been late in two years, im always on time

i know i should try and calm down but im a chronic worrier.

 

[bubbling under]

Just out of interest, what tests are you using?

 

[Ladybug]

i cant remember the one i used today but im gunna get a clear blue one

 

[Ladybug]

IM NOT PREGNANT

 

[Ainsworth]

aww glad your happy matey

 

[emski]

Nice one! Bet you're so relieved! really chuffed for you ladybug

 

[Ladybug]

i am relieved i am
but when it came up negative a little part of me felt sad

 

[emski]

Aww sweetheart, I think it's a normal female reaction to feel like that.

Hope you are ok x