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OCD attraction and sex

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hi everyone I have these really bad anxieties over being attracted to people who are not my partner. If I am attracted to someone else I become obsessed with that attraction and I make every little thing bout them and their attention. For example, I may walk really far away from other people or feel guilty when I am friendly. If I am around them I will talk about my partner. If I was aroused by them I won't sleep with my partner for several tries sometimes longer because I feel like that arousal has contaminated all other arousing thoughts or feelings. I am struggling with feeling extreme guilt every time I am attracted to someone as well as every time that I am intimate with my partner after lusting after someone else.
I recently was attracted to someone and it made me feel some things but nothing crazy clear just a feeling in my groin followed with a heightened alert of my emotions and surroundings. I was also simultaneously splitting on my significant other and thinking about moving on to some extent. We have been going through a really hard time. The next day I was extremely aroused all day and thinking about my partner with a few intrusive or lustful thoughts here and there about this person, and my best friend's man cause I get weird around literally all men. anyway long story short I ended up sleeping with my man and now I have severe fear that the other people were the reason for my arousal and I just did something completely wrong. I have a really big fear of being unfaithful or unkind to this person and therefore i am feeling pretty wrong about this. i also found it helps me to tell him about these things and then i feel like the wrong is resolved and i don't need to feel guilty anymore.
 
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Try to be with a girl who wants you, she 'll treat you a lot better than one who you want.
 
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