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Obsessing

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gurl2134

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So a few weeks ago my boyfriend was accused of cheating, which turned out to be false. There was no evidence to prove that he would do that to me just hear say. Plus I talked to his family, and they said that never happened. But my thoughts keep playing tricks on me. I know he wouldn’t do that to me but in my head it’s telling me o what if he did do that to you and what if I’m wrong and stuff. I think I’m obsessing over the whole situation. I feel that because all the feedback I got showed he didn’t do it, should help me to just let the situation go. I love my boyfriend and I want to marry him, I’m just scared because I kept having these thoughts. I need some reassurance. I just want to know everything is ok and I’m just obsessing. Also I do have OCD and ROCD.
 
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iWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH2

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I don't blame you for being suspicious. Partners cheat, break up, and divorce all the time. It is a total rarety when two people stay together for the rest of their lives. Most humans just don't have what it takes to remain loyal. One reason I'm glad I'm single. But I hope you and your lover remain together for the rest of your lives if that is truly what you both desire.
 
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iWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH2

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You're welcome. 🙃
 
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