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I have lost my way.. I can’t tell if I’m wrong or I’m surrounded by others who are.. I have several episodes that last like this and then all seems fine for a while - but I know it’s not..
 
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I have lost my way.. I can’t tell if I’m wrong or I’m surrounded by others who are.. I have several episodes that last like this and then all seems fine for a while - but I know it’s not..
anything in particular you’re referring to? Is it something that happened like a difference of opinion with people or is it just a sensation that occurs?
 
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This is a long term thing that I’m really trying to get resolved. I have episodes where it’s far worse. But it’s always there.. I really am a nice person - you’d not believe the compromise and care I give / have given for decades.. however hard I try to please - and share how I feel if without conflict if I disagree, I am chastised. Like I try my best to be the best and it back fires
 
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This is a long term thing that I’m really trying to get resolved. I have episodes where it’s far worse. But it’s always there.. I really am a nice person - you’d not believe the compromise and care I give / have given for decades.. however hard I try to please - and share how I feel if without conflict if I disagree, I am chastised. Like I try my best to be the best and it back fires
is this a particular issue with one person or something you feel you need to do with everyone? Compromise/suppress your feelings to avoid conflict
 
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At work it’s less of an issue.. i guess with one person.. but it’s a very unique situation.
 
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:welcome: a warm welcome. Are you trying to help etc. and then getting criticised/ the blame?
 
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Mhm.. so any time there's a discussion about anything you've gotta keep your opinions to yourself or risk upsetting them?

You have every right to have your own thoughts and opinions on anything, and you should not be forced into squashing everything down to appease anyone. Sure, there's a nice way to resolve a disagreement or share a different opinion, but if you're having to suppress your emotions/thoughts/feelings like you're treading on eggshells, that's not a healthy relationship. That's a red flag.
 
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Welcome, I hope you can settle in the forum here as everyone is so caring and helpful.
 
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Hello CdpPdc, welcome to the forum.
 
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