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Fairy Lucretia

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i feel like i cant cope with anything there are so many changes in my life right now i cant face them
im so scared all of the time i dont think i can go on much longer
im scared to die but dont see i have a choice im so tired and confused i just want it all over
 
Parissa

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:hug1:

Life can be scary and hard. There seems to be lots to worry about. I get sucked into a hole like this sometimes. You can get through it.

Love Parissa
 
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Fairy Lu, so sorry you are feeling so bad. Think all you can try and do it take a day at a time, or an hour at a time, or a minute at a time. Please try not to worry about the changes in your life. Worrying dosnt help , it just makes you really tired and ties your head in knots - from one expert worrier to another

Sending hugs :hug5:
 
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Hey Lu Lu, I hope you are feeling better soon. Life can be scary but you can always come and talk to us

Davey x
 
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Sending you lots of love and hugs.
Change is really hard to deal with, especially when you feel it's not your choice.. just keep breathing and taking things one day at a time. :hug5:
 
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Sorry you're finding things hard at the moment my sweet fairy. Try and take things one thing at a time and take as long as you need to adjust to them. I know it's hard but I'm sure you can do it and we are here to help you anytime you want us. Sending you hugs to help you on your way. :hug5: :hug5: :hug5:

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Sorry you're feeling bad fairy Lu. Change can be unsettling and scary, but it's only temporary; things will settle down for you again and once the transition is over you'll get use to a new normal, a new routine; then things won't feel as scary any more. Hang in there nice fairy lady. :hug:
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(((Hugs Fairy Lu)))
Changes are always scary, no matter how big or small, but one thing is for certain, worrying about stuff never helps - even though it can be an automatic response, and something we all do..! But it just makes you more depressed and anxious. I haven't been here very long, so apologies that I don't know your story, but are you receiving any help or support with how you are feeling? I see you post to others a lot on here and your replies are always kind and thoughtful.

I hope you will start to feel better soon and less anxious about things. Don't keep it bottled up. Remember, you always have a choice hun, we all do. You are fighting these bad feelings and choosing to live - that takes courage, and you have that in abundance.

Kind thoughts
Echo
 
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