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welferus

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Hello I am welferus. 41 male from the Netherlands. I have been diagnosed with bpd, avpd and depression. I am getting worse and worse.

I am very lonely with next to no friends so I thought it would be great to meet people here. I do want to point out that I tend to develop romantic feelings towards women real fast and that ends up hurting me. But locking myself away is also terrible.

Nice to meet everyone :)
 
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Hello welferus, welcome to the forum I hope you will settle here as everyone is so helpful and very caring.
 
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Hey, @welferus, welcome to the forum. Really hope you find it as helpful as so many of us do. I'm really sorry you are feeling so lonely and depressed, but even talking on here and understanding how not alone you are and that people here are supportive and listen can help a lot. It has helped me beyond words.

Really glad you found the forum. Again, hope it's really helpful to you, you are not alone. xx
 
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Hey, @welferus, welcome to the forum. Really hope you find it as helpful as so many of us do. I'm really sorry you are feeling so lonely and depressed, but even talking on here and understanding how not alone you are and that people here are supportive and listen can help a lot. It has helped me beyond words.

Really glad you found the forum. Again, hope it's really helpful to you, you are not alone. xx
So great to hear that it has helped you so much. I hope it will for me too. The only thing I worry about is that my disorders tend to make me run away. Lets hope for the best though.
 
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So great to hear that it has helped you so much. I hope it will for me too. The only thing I worry about is that my disorders tend to make me run away. Lets hope for the best though.
yeah, I hear that. the good thing about this is, you can do it when you feel like it, not do it when you don't. I have left for a month and come back, as sometimes you just don't feel like connecting, and I get that. But yeah, it's available 24/7 and can help when you do feel like connecting. So keep reaching out when you feel like it. xx
 
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Hi Welferus, you seem to be very good at describing your feelings, this is good and you should praise yourself for that. It's important to give yourself praise.

A lot of us on here don't have any friends and we like to chat on the forum and discuss our feelings. You will find there is some great advice on here.

And you will be helping others too by sharing.
 
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Hello welferus, welcome to the forum.
 
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Hello Weiferus you seem nice. We are glad that you found us. xo, j
 
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