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Louise009

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Hello!
Im lou, im 19 and ive suffered with mental health issues (Anxiety, manic depression, ptsd, bpd & eating disorders) since i was 9.

I kind of have most of my mental health issues 'under control' but my BPD is definitely harder to manage.

I have a girlfriend, we met a year ago when she moved to the UK with her family, weve been together for 9 months, she has never gave me a reason to be jealous or worried about her loyalty, however i cant shake the thought of her being in love with her ex (they dont communicate, she doesnt speak about her, this is totally on my own accord). I check through her exs social media reguarly, if a love song comes on, i think that my girlfriend is thinking of her ex. Its ruining my relationship, i dont know what to do, who to turn to, or how to help it.

Please.. please help me!
 
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Dispatch

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why don’t you trust her ? ... if you don’t have trust, then what’s the point ?
 
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Dispatch

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do you love her ? ... does she love you ?
 
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Jlttomo

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As hard as it is, you either have to learn to deal with these thoughts, or move on, I went through something similar, and I know how tough it is.
 
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