C
coco
New member
- Joined
- Sep 11, 2008
- Messages
- 2
Hi,
Im new to the site, but need some advice. I have BPD and get very moody. Recently I have been having trouble with a friend. They take the piss out of me fairly often as I do and say some stupid stuff, but the thing that has gotten to me is that when I show that I dont like it they wind me up even more, and have said to me that they think it is funny that it winds me up. If it was someone who I didnt care about then it wouldnt be an issue, but this is the only 'real life' person I have let in.
It is a vicious cycle. I get into moods because I hate the fact that they enjoy winding me up when they know it is getting to me. Then I get shit because I am always in a mood. I dont know what to do. Shut up and get on with it, or to walk away from them, or just cut off from them emotionally so what they say doesnt matter. I dont think they will change as I have tried talking to them about it. Any comments would be appreciated
Im new to the site, but need some advice. I have BPD and get very moody. Recently I have been having trouble with a friend. They take the piss out of me fairly often as I do and say some stupid stuff, but the thing that has gotten to me is that when I show that I dont like it they wind me up even more, and have said to me that they think it is funny that it winds me up. If it was someone who I didnt care about then it wouldnt be an issue, but this is the only 'real life' person I have let in.
It is a vicious cycle. I get into moods because I hate the fact that they enjoy winding me up when they know it is getting to me. Then I get shit because I am always in a mood. I dont know what to do. Shut up and get on with it, or to walk away from them, or just cut off from them emotionally so what they say doesnt matter. I dont think they will change as I have tried talking to them about it. Any comments would be appreciated
