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willowdaisiechain
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Hello ,
I have been with my fiancé for three and abit years now . We are normally in a good place and love each other dearly . We have been struggling to conceive for a good two years and have had two Devasting miscarriages one at 5 weeks and one at 10 weeks . Now I am just not falling pregnant and it’s soul destroying .
I have found out I am pregnant again at 11 weeks but there worried it is a high risk pregnancy and I could miscarry again . Which I’m worried about as this will kill me .
The other day my partner got a letter from the cms claiming he has fathered his ex girlfriends child she has . The baby was born in October 2016 we got together April 7th 2016 . My partner is so angry and fuming . He wasn’t with this women long about five Months and he barely saw her . This ex partner was abusive to him and would regularly hit him , use his card and wallet and also he worries she may of tried to trap him by cutting condoms . She isn’t a nice person .
I’m just worried this child is his and it will effect me physically and mentally and also us finically . Knowing he got another women pregnant and she is the mother to his child makes me me feel so sick and upset . He said he doesn’t want anything to do with the child
And never will . He doesn’t want to speak about it or ever see it . He has such anger . It just the finical impact if it is his . Will cripple us especially with our baby .
I’m so worried it’s making me feel i don’t want to be here any more I feel
I want to end my life .
Please help .
What do
I do !!
Hannah
I have been with my fiancé for three and abit years now . We are normally in a good place and love each other dearly . We have been struggling to conceive for a good two years and have had two Devasting miscarriages one at 5 weeks and one at 10 weeks . Now I am just not falling pregnant and it’s soul destroying .
I have found out I am pregnant again at 11 weeks but there worried it is a high risk pregnancy and I could miscarry again . Which I’m worried about as this will kill me .
The other day my partner got a letter from the cms claiming he has fathered his ex girlfriends child she has . The baby was born in October 2016 we got together April 7th 2016 . My partner is so angry and fuming . He wasn’t with this women long about five Months and he barely saw her . This ex partner was abusive to him and would regularly hit him , use his card and wallet and also he worries she may of tried to trap him by cutting condoms . She isn’t a nice person .
I’m just worried this child is his and it will effect me physically and mentally and also us finically . Knowing he got another women pregnant and she is the mother to his child makes me me feel so sick and upset . He said he doesn’t want anything to do with the child
And never will . He doesn’t want to speak about it or ever see it . He has such anger . It just the finical impact if it is his . Will cripple us especially with our baby .
I’m so worried it’s making me feel i don’t want to be here any more I feel
I want to end my life .
Please help .
What do
I do !!
Hannah