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angiebabes
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right where do i begin, think i will begin at the beginning, and it will be a long story, so bare with me, here goes, xx
me mum and dad married in start of 75, and had me brother a few months later, then in end of 78, i came along.
me mum and dads relationship has always been a bit rocky from the word go, with constant arguements and the occasional fights, where both of them where equally to blame for their part in it, which my dad has always admitted to his side of it, fair enough.
then when i was about a year old, my dad took the responsibility of leaving the relationship, cos he didnt love me mum anymore and didnt want to stay in a relationship where there was constant fighting infront of children, even though he always tried keep in contact with me and my brother, under the circumstances with my mum.
As a result of this split, since then, my mum has been very bitter about the split. she has taken every opportunity to make my dad look like a complete moron and some kind of monster to every one that she talks to, by either constantly lying through her teeth about him, over exagerating about wat he has done, or witholding information that can automatically change the view of the story to his favour, or a combination of these things.
a few examples of what she has done above is, abot 4 years after the split he was living with my step mum and step brothers and sisters, is my step mum booked a holiday to blackpool for her and my step brothers and sisters but not my dad, so my dad payed for himself, in which my mum knew this, but this didnt stop her from going abot telling everyone that he didnt give a flying f#ck abot his own kids, cos he fully payed for a holiday for his new family.
she also try and get information out of me and my brother about me dad etc when we came back from visiting so she can twist the stories round to suit her, to make her look like an angel and him look like an @rsehole etc, and she would take great delight in doing it infront of me, or making sure i was in hearing distance when shes saying things about me dad.
Every time my dad used to send xmas and b/day cards with money in it, my mum used to open the cards and pocket the money and seal the card back up, and then try and make out that me dad didnt give us anything etc,, that kinda stuff.
all this kinda stuff has gone on for years, and now its got to the stage where my mum is now having goes at me to get at my dad, cos when i last visited her, she said, and i quote,, " ur beginning to look like ur dad every time i see u, a f#cking ugly b#stard",, then she proceeded to laugh in me face about it,,, which she upset me,, and she knew she upset me cos she proceeded to laugh and crack jokes about the fact that she upset me.
oh and shes a bit of a control freak and a bit of a bully as well,, everything has to be her way,,, and if it doesnt,, she tries to sorta bully me into doing wat she wants
now thats me finished,, hopes thats enough info there ,, lol xxxx`
me mum and dad married in start of 75, and had me brother a few months later, then in end of 78, i came along.
me mum and dads relationship has always been a bit rocky from the word go, with constant arguements and the occasional fights, where both of them where equally to blame for their part in it, which my dad has always admitted to his side of it, fair enough.
then when i was about a year old, my dad took the responsibility of leaving the relationship, cos he didnt love me mum anymore and didnt want to stay in a relationship where there was constant fighting infront of children, even though he always tried keep in contact with me and my brother, under the circumstances with my mum.
As a result of this split, since then, my mum has been very bitter about the split. she has taken every opportunity to make my dad look like a complete moron and some kind of monster to every one that she talks to, by either constantly lying through her teeth about him, over exagerating about wat he has done, or witholding information that can automatically change the view of the story to his favour, or a combination of these things.
a few examples of what she has done above is, abot 4 years after the split he was living with my step mum and step brothers and sisters, is my step mum booked a holiday to blackpool for her and my step brothers and sisters but not my dad, so my dad payed for himself, in which my mum knew this, but this didnt stop her from going abot telling everyone that he didnt give a flying f#ck abot his own kids, cos he fully payed for a holiday for his new family.
she also try and get information out of me and my brother about me dad etc when we came back from visiting so she can twist the stories round to suit her, to make her look like an angel and him look like an @rsehole etc, and she would take great delight in doing it infront of me, or making sure i was in hearing distance when shes saying things about me dad.
Every time my dad used to send xmas and b/day cards with money in it, my mum used to open the cards and pocket the money and seal the card back up, and then try and make out that me dad didnt give us anything etc,, that kinda stuff.
all this kinda stuff has gone on for years, and now its got to the stage where my mum is now having goes at me to get at my dad, cos when i last visited her, she said, and i quote,, " ur beginning to look like ur dad every time i see u, a f#cking ugly b#stard",, then she proceeded to laugh in me face about it,,, which she upset me,, and she knew she upset me cos she proceeded to laugh and crack jokes about the fact that she upset me.
oh and shes a bit of a control freak and a bit of a bully as well,, everything has to be her way,,, and if it doesnt,, she tries to sorta bully me into doing wat she wants
now thats me finished,, hopes thats enough info there ,, lol xxxx`