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MHFU89
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Hi, I'm new to this forum.
I've recently gotten hurt by my narcissistic ex boyfriend. I didn't realise he was a narc until recently when he manipulated and used me, and all his other subtle behaviours that went under my radar at the time have now flashed red lights at me. I have now gone NC.
My question is simple. Most narcs (like my ex has just done), use you for something. In my case, I was used for money. Why do narcs, like my ex did, flirt with you and talk about meeting up for sexual purposes, but when it actually comes to planning the meet, they make excuses or back off, or push it away? Surely they would use you for sex?
He's the typical narc who doesn't want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me, and gets very jealous of me. He checked to see if I've seen anyone since him, and he liked it when I said no and only had him on my mind... But he'd say how much he wanted to meet me, then when it came to planning the meet, he always made excuses?? ? He also tried making me jealous an awful lot, especially leading up to going out drinking with his friends. I realised what he was doing, and so I blocked him and went NC.
I've recently gotten hurt by my narcissistic ex boyfriend. I didn't realise he was a narc until recently when he manipulated and used me, and all his other subtle behaviours that went under my radar at the time have now flashed red lights at me. I have now gone NC.
My question is simple. Most narcs (like my ex has just done), use you for something. In my case, I was used for money. Why do narcs, like my ex did, flirt with you and talk about meeting up for sexual purposes, but when it actually comes to planning the meet, they make excuses or back off, or push it away? Surely they would use you for sex?
He's the typical narc who doesn't want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me, and gets very jealous of me. He checked to see if I've seen anyone since him, and he liked it when I said no and only had him on my mind... But he'd say how much he wanted to meet me, then when it came to planning the meet, he always made excuses?? ? He also tried making me jealous an awful lot, especially leading up to going out drinking with his friends. I realised what he was doing, and so I blocked him and went NC.