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my sister has severe depression and has all the signs of BPD. She was getting help but stopped as soon as COVID hit. They wanted to send her to a psychologist to be re-diagnosed but COVID struck
I try to read about and educate myself about mental illness. I joined this forum to help me understand better
we have had many many arguments over the years. The last 2 years they escalated so much that in the arguments she tells me she hates me which I take very personally
this past weekend it was her sons birthday and Easter. I tried so hard not to have an argument. she says I am the only one that sends her in a severe depression - I feel I am the catalyst to her going into depression - she blames me
It seems whatever I do if I have an issue with her - it leads into an argument - than she spirals and goes into a state
it happened in Easter - I was diagnosed with high blood pressure and she was supportive for a day. We started to have an argument and her mood changed and she told me I was lying about my health She wanted proof my bp was high and it threw me. I felt How dare you accuse me of lying
well another blow out - I even sent her pictures of my pressure taken at the local pharmacy -she said I made it up
I ended sending the pics to her husband to tell him I am not lying. But he has his head is in the sand - he told me life is too short to fight - he even told me when we fight her mood changes - how does he say this putting the blame on me
she thinks I am lying she thinks the worst of me during these spirals ( lows) - I put other people before her -
what do I do - I love her - I told her she needs help but she said it will take months with Uk’s health system. I live in the USA
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
my sister has severe depression and has all the signs of BPD. She was getting help but stopped as soon as COVID hit. They wanted to send her to a psychologist to be re-diagnosed but COVID struck
I try to read about and educate myself about mental illness. I joined this forum to help me understand better
we have had many many arguments over the years. The last 2 years they escalated so much that in the arguments she tells me she hates me which I take very personally
this past weekend it was her sons birthday and Easter. I tried so hard not to have an argument. she says I am the only one that sends her in a severe depression - I feel I am the catalyst to her going into depression - she blames me
It seems whatever I do if I have an issue with her - it leads into an argument - than she spirals and goes into a state
it happened in Easter - I was diagnosed with high blood pressure and she was supportive for a day. We started to have an argument and her mood changed and she told me I was lying about my health She wanted proof my bp was high and it threw me. I felt How dare you accuse me of lying
well another blow out - I even sent her pictures of my pressure taken at the local pharmacy -she said I made it up
I ended sending the pics to her husband to tell him I am not lying. But he has his head is in the sand - he told me life is too short to fight - he even told me when we fight her mood changes - how does he say this putting the blame on me
she thinks I am lying she thinks the worst of me during these spirals ( lows) - I put other people before her -
what do I do - I love her - I told her she needs help but she said it will take months with Uk’s health system. I live in the USA
Any advice would be greatly appreciated