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cryingoutfor
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The short story-where I AM now..
being bullied by my husband..its beeen going on for some time,but onlt just figured it out. I have a counsellor because I myself felt quite desperate,she said Iwas being bullied by him-suggests (indirectly) i build up my confidence and leave).my doc says same.
Before figuring it out,i thought it was my fault.,but i realised he had issues.
First thing i noticed was his unhealthy attachment to
his dog.
its like he has invested all his emotions in his dog.I have always said that if there was one thing that would split us up it was his attitude to his dog.
He talks to it incessantly-like one would speak to a child-like as though it understands.
One night i counted he told it 20 times to come to bed-and thats before he even goes to bed.
His family say it is like his child.They are unsophisticated people,but lovely,very child centered-but not necessarily in a good way.
i noticed in time that his family are all anxious,but you don't notice until you have been with them for a while.
He has anxiety- moved in with him,i just thought he cared-every pub or restaurant i fancied was rough,i shouldn't go to the supermarket at night,He seemed scared when we visited the nearby "big city" puffing his chest out like a cockerel,very uncomfortable-but i ry to extend his comfort zone.
He is a company director and has a lot of responsibi.ity-but i fear he bullies his staff.
now,i can not take much more- he threw the remote control across the room,
and invented some ridiculous arguament why it was my fault,
he left-i allowed it-when you are bullied-you learn to be very careful about what you say/
anyway today he came round and i can tell he has spoken to a proffesional-he says maybe he is depressed ,shopping,gambling,obsessive buying.i know some of his history-alopecia at 17,etc
I THOUGHT IT WAS DEFINITELY ANXIETY BASED.TODAY HE MENTIONS COMPULSION,MAYBE DPRESSION,HE HAS MADE AN appointment to see doc-currently prescribed anti ds for anxiety-one appointment only-NO follow up
help
sad bullied wifex
being bullied by my husband..its beeen going on for some time,but onlt just figured it out. I have a counsellor because I myself felt quite desperate,she said Iwas being bullied by him-suggests (indirectly) i build up my confidence and leave).my doc says same.
Before figuring it out,i thought it was my fault.,but i realised he had issues.
First thing i noticed was his unhealthy attachment to
his dog.
its like he has invested all his emotions in his dog.I have always said that if there was one thing that would split us up it was his attitude to his dog.
He talks to it incessantly-like one would speak to a child-like as though it understands.
One night i counted he told it 20 times to come to bed-and thats before he even goes to bed.
His family say it is like his child.They are unsophisticated people,but lovely,very child centered-but not necessarily in a good way.
i noticed in time that his family are all anxious,but you don't notice until you have been with them for a while.
He has anxiety- moved in with him,i just thought he cared-every pub or restaurant i fancied was rough,i shouldn't go to the supermarket at night,He seemed scared when we visited the nearby "big city" puffing his chest out like a cockerel,very uncomfortable-but i ry to extend his comfort zone.
He is a company director and has a lot of responsibi.ity-but i fear he bullies his staff.
now,i can not take much more- he threw the remote control across the room,
and invented some ridiculous arguament why it was my fault,
he left-i allowed it-when you are bullied-you learn to be very careful about what you say/
anyway today he came round and i can tell he has spoken to a proffesional-he says maybe he is depressed ,shopping,gambling,obsessive buying.i know some of his history-alopecia at 17,etc
I THOUGHT IT WAS DEFINITELY ANXIETY BASED.TODAY HE MENTIONS COMPULSION,MAYBE DPRESSION,HE HAS MADE AN appointment to see doc-currently prescribed anti ds for anxiety-one appointment only-NO follow up
help
sad bullied wifex
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