- Jun 26, 2014
- Avenue Q in the US
She is getting weaker everyday my aunt said and is just laying in bed all day long feeling very sad. My sister and I think it's because of my dad's disowning of her (my sister) and him refusing to admit HE'S the one with the problem. Basically my dad is angry that my sister's husband didn't come from money, go to a big name college like Princeton, isn't a doctor, and most important factor of all, he isn't Asian. This is what my dad told me that my sister SHOULD have married. As you all know, my sister just had a baby recently and she thinks grandma told our dad about it and asked him to make up with my sister for her and our dad refused and started to scream and yell and rant angrily at his own mother. Now he is going out to see her and we will see her again from December 23rd to the 30th. My sister is very worried that Grandma will bring up her desire to see dad and my sister make up and that he'll start yelling again and making Grandma feel even worse. I am often at the end of the rant stick when he is home and I often pretend to be on my dad's side just to keep some peace and avoid him going off on me. It is pretty stressful at times especially since I have to do this in front of his friends and even the ones that know the entire family. It is just an awful situation we (my sister and I) are in and it is hard to know what exactly to say and what not to say to people all the time in our town.My dad has told many that she disowned him. My sister and even my dad's own sister have asked him to at least pretend to make up for Grandma's sake and he is too selfish to even do that. Dad is the one with the problem and is too stubborn to admit it. I just wish he would see the harm he is doing to our family and apologize but that's about as likely as the dodo bird suddenly appearing alive in millions out of nowhere.