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sam999

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i shouldnt share this with the internet but im so sad rn. i had 3 friends i was talking to over discord nd stuff and it literally just turned out to be 1 person who was pretending to be multiple different people. i dont know who to trust anymore and it sucks. he did horrible stuff, like pretend he k1lled himself even though i now know he didnt because i was still talking to him but on another account ( not knowing it was him ofc). he now apolgized and says he has DID ( i think thats multiple personality disorder or smth im not sure) but i dont know if i can ever trust him again
 
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sam999 if you give up trusting people because of one person's actions, then you are in danger of allowing them to do more damage than they already have. I would not give him this power if I were you. I think you should seriously consider thanking him for his apology but telling him that your relationships depend on trust and that has completely gone, so it is farewell and you hope he manages to sort his life out in the future.
 
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Hey I wish I had one friend who pretended to be one person, or what I mean is, I have difficulty holding on to just one person for a given length of time. Maybe it’s me, maybe they undervalue the maintenance of one individual, whatever the case, your not alone in the fact of : weird relationships boiling over, over the internet, and it’s a bummer. Soon the wisdom will brush off and they can start delivering the effort required to keep a friendship lvl of at least %50. But right now wisdom is a real diamond in the ruffles, very hard to come by.
 
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sam999 if you give up trusting people because of one person's actions, then you are in danger of allowing them to do more damage than they already have. I would not give him this power if I were you. I think you should seriously consider thanking him for his apology but telling him that your relationships depend on trust and that has completely gone, so it is farewell and you hope he manages to sort his life out in the future.
Thank you 💕
 
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