- Dec 19, 2009
I found out about 7 months ago that my best friend self harms. i found out on accident, but when i asked her about it she wasn't mad or anything. she talks to me about it a lot and i'm glad she trusts me, but it's gotten a lot worse since and i don't really know how to help her. i just tell her that she shouldn't hate herself like she does. she's also struggling with depression and i let her vent about stuff and occasionally she'll take out her frustration on me. she doesn't realize she does it, but i don't point it out. maybe that's dumb. but i just don't want her to think that the only person who seems to care about her is pissed off. which i'm not. she doesn't feel comfortable going to anybody (parents, therapist, etc.), but she really needs help. she wants to stop but she can't and i feel so helpless becuase there's nothing i can do except watch her self destruct....i just really don't know...
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