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My friend needs me, but I don't know if I am strong enough

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Backstory, we are middle age women, best friends for over 10 years and close co-workers. I have always been her confidant and support, and she has never turned on me. That changed today. Today she crossed a personal and professional line I am afraid I'm not able to fully recover from. What advice can bpd's give to non-bpd friends who want to support and love, but have to protect themselves from from the emotional violence?
 
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not alot to go on but I guess you can either ;

A. forgive her for her mistake
or
B. not forgive her and move on with your life
 
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