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Becc
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Hey there,
A few months ago I finished with my boyfriend of two years because of a number of things.
- He had a serious lack of motivation, and eventually became quite neglectful and I didnt feel that he was interested anymore. He stopped going to university and eventually got withdrawn, he didn't work, didnt' clean, didn't take care of himself like wash regularly and get his hair cut and didnt eat properly. He became so unfit and was tired all the time. I was doing a lot for him. I was also working really hard to get into art college, so i was very busy.
-he has had a history with obsession, with other girls before me.
- when I started to become a bit depressed and started to hint that i was going to leave, he used a lot of emotional blackmail. He went crazy, wrecked things, yelled and roared at himself and said he was going to commit suicide.
so I stayed.
- I discovered hoards of various kinds of very perverted porn. He knew porn was a touchy thing with me. But there was a lot of sexual fantasies he kept hidden from me and this hurt me a lot.
so I left. The night I left he went to go and kill himself. But he didnt, that was lucky.
Now, he is not doing too well at all. And we were just talking there and he just admitted that he thinks he has another personality, like an angry self and a normal self. And sometimes the angry self separates from him and makes him do and think very strange things about sex. He is also generally very angry and has a lot of rage.
Another thing he added was that he is unsure about what is "real". That "with the technology of today, we could be living in a simulation and this could be all make believe"
... sorry for the essay, but what can I do!? This is all so odd. I know the people he knows and he doesnt know many people. I think i am the only person that listens to him.
How should he go about contacting someone to talk to? Are there any signs in the things I have described?
Thanks.
x
A few months ago I finished with my boyfriend of two years because of a number of things.
- He had a serious lack of motivation, and eventually became quite neglectful and I didnt feel that he was interested anymore. He stopped going to university and eventually got withdrawn, he didn't work, didnt' clean, didn't take care of himself like wash regularly and get his hair cut and didnt eat properly. He became so unfit and was tired all the time. I was doing a lot for him. I was also working really hard to get into art college, so i was very busy.
-he has had a history with obsession, with other girls before me.
- when I started to become a bit depressed and started to hint that i was going to leave, he used a lot of emotional blackmail. He went crazy, wrecked things, yelled and roared at himself and said he was going to commit suicide.
so I stayed.
- I discovered hoards of various kinds of very perverted porn. He knew porn was a touchy thing with me. But there was a lot of sexual fantasies he kept hidden from me and this hurt me a lot.
so I left. The night I left he went to go and kill himself. But he didnt, that was lucky.
Now, he is not doing too well at all. And we were just talking there and he just admitted that he thinks he has another personality, like an angry self and a normal self. And sometimes the angry self separates from him and makes him do and think very strange things about sex. He is also generally very angry and has a lot of rage.
Another thing he added was that he is unsure about what is "real". That "with the technology of today, we could be living in a simulation and this could be all make believe"
... sorry for the essay, but what can I do!? This is all so odd. I know the people he knows and he doesnt know many people. I think i am the only person that listens to him.
How should he go about contacting someone to talk to? Are there any signs in the things I have described?
Thanks.
x