- May 27, 2009
I hope someone can help me I guess we all need some help here. I have a brother who is 43 years old 3 years ago Christmas Day he told our family and his that he was going to divorce his wife and mother of his two children. He has been falling ever since. Because he was afraid of all of us and he kept firing all of his lawyers he was taken in his divorce and he ended up destitute. He sold all he owned for much less than it was worth and was living in is truck. Due to many circumstances I now support my brother, I have made sure he has a roof over his head and food on his table, he does not live with me but I have bought him a home. My problem at this time is that he does not believe that he has a problem, he won't see a doctor. Today for the first time I refused to give him money for cigaretts, it is 11pm here and I can not sleep because I feel so guilty. I am not sure if I am enabling his behavoir, he is not social and lives alone he has very little contact with his children and today I saw that he trashed his microwave, tv and cell phone he says he does'nt have a problem. Am I the one with the problem?