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my aunt won't talk about her funeral

Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

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#1
i know it isn't a nice topic but she is 90
she has made no plans at all and won't talk about it

the thing is i am not capable of planning it when she has passed
i will be a wreck and struggle to do things independently

how can i make her see i want it all sorted for the good of both of us?
i love her and wish she would live forever but she can't xx
 
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exyz

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Hello Lu:)
Well that's a tough one you have given us to think about!
If it is any help all I haven't spoken to my lot about it either, except that it's paid for and I don't want a fuss. :unsure:

It's not nice talking about funerals for anyone, but I can see why you are worried.
Maybe leave it for a while and let her think about it, and she might talk about it with you eventually.:hug: