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gurl2134

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I keep having these thoughts about wanting to move out and live with my boyfriend. I’m tired of living with my family I can’t handle them anymore. But I keep having these thoughts about no I don’t want to move in with my boyfriend. It upsets me, because I know I want to idk why I keep having these unwanted thoughts. Also I was having thought s about what if I just want to live with my boyfriend to get away from my family. I feel that I love my boyfriend, he makes me happy. I just keep doubting my love for him sometimes. I’m scared does all this mean I don’t love him? I’m pretty sure I’m reading into this too much. But I want to be with my boyfriend I don’t want to loose him. I’m scared I’m going to loose him. Thoughts?
 
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gurl2134

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Btw I have OCD and ROCD, and I get unwanted thoughts.
 
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I'm a bit confused about what your unwanted thoughts actually are, are they about moving in with your boyfriend as in "i dont want to move in with him" or is it "i want to move in with him to get away from my family"?

as for whether or not you love him, can you imagine moving in with him to spend the rest of your life with him? for you and him not to get away from anyone?
 
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your thoughts sound pretty normal to me
just need to talk them through with someone

:loveshower: :loveshower: :loveshower: 🌠
 
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I'm a bit confused about what your unwanted thoughts actually are, are they about moving in with your boyfriend as in "i dont want to move in with him" or is it "i want to move in with him to get away from my family"?

as for whether or not you love him, can you imagine moving in with him to spend the rest of your life with him? for you and him not to get away from anyone?
My unwanted thoughts are about not wanting to live with my boyfriend, but I do know I’m reality I want to live with him
 
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