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Meeting my ex tomorrow

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Gredge23

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I'm meeting my ex girlfriend tomorrow , I am so nervous I feel like crying , I want to get back with her , I have bought her flowers a card perfume and wrote a letter explaining how I feel about her , what if she says just be friends (which I think she will) I won't be able to cope I will become suicidal I need some words of encouragement please guys :(
 
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SittingInTheBackRow

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Be yourself and if it's meant to be it will be.
 
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Gredge23

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I know I shud feel like that but my black or white thinking is driving me to put her above all else and if she declines me I will kill myself
 
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It is really great that she wants to see you.

If she didn't like you, she would not see you.


It is really nice that you have bought her some nice things. A letter is also a nice touch.

All good relationships start with a friendship. Maybe if you go to being friends, you can go out together and then build up to being in a relationship again.

Try to just enjoy tomorrow.
 
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Gredge23

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Yeah that's what I'm thinking two she must still have some feelings if she wants to c me , thank you so much for that reply it has put my mind at ease I'm looking forward to tomorrow now thanks again xx
 
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