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meet the parents x

Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

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im meeting hermits parents in the new year
im sure they will figure out within 30 seconds what everyone already knows-he is too good for me x
 
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it doesnt matter what the parents think
I dont think Hermit would let them be the judge !

:love:
 
Fairy Lucretia

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it doesnt matter what the parents think
I dont think Hermit would let them be the judge !

:love:
I know but im really fat and ugly and have no education
he is really handsome with loads of education

I cant figure why he likes me x
oh because of my 'personality' um x
 
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maybe he doesnt want someone with loads of education !
its never got me anywhere !

your personality is quite complicated and sophisticated actually x x
 
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I'm sure they'll love you, please try not to worry.
 
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I remember someone saying to me, why are you with him.... I was tall, skinny, not bad loking, 17 and "going places", he was 25, overweight and a bus driver.

29years later I'm a lecturer with almost a PhD and overweight with short grey hair, BPD and a while host of other things, he spent 19 years as a stay at home dad and is now a hospital porter. he has no education beyond secondary school, and do you know what? he is absolutely perfect (just for me!!!!).

My parents weren't keen because he was 8years older than me and looked it, his parents weren't keen because I was (17), and obviously not grown up enough.
15 months after we met we married and 9months after that we had a daughter.
We were a statistic, I was a teenage bride and a teenage mum, no one expected us to survive, we had serious ups and downs and a lot of baggage, but it didn't matter... So it took me 22 years to realise he really did love me and accept it. So it's taken a lot of therapy to get to that point.

What I'm saying is at the end of the day, what other people think, what others say doesn't matter, the end point is the two of you will be together and you will forge your own path regardless of other people. Once you are on that path other people will come and enjoy your journey with you, some throughout, some pop in and out, and some come for a short time and leave again.

None of them really matter if you and hermit keep walking together. XXX
 
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@Fairy Lucretia im sure within 30 seconds they’ll see what a lovely person you are. We are all different and have our talents in different ways. The main thing is that you and hermit love each other and that will shine thru. All the same good luck x
 
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im sure you can become beautiful with some hair and makeup makeover and fashion like a total makeover for that night alone.
 
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