I have no sex drive and it's not due to the medication. In fact, my pdoc said that the Wellbutrin actually has a chance of upping my sex drive. This lack of sex drive is a normal occurence for me and my lack of affection is what has ended most of my relationships. I'm good for about the first couple of months, super lovey, but then it just stops. No hugging. No kissing. Definitely no sex. It's like I am repulsed by it.
It never really affected me before because the past boyfriends were mentally abusive douchers so I figure they deserved it. But my current boyfriend of 4 and a half years does not deserve it. He's sweet and so very patient and attractive but I have to make myself be affectionate and it's very apparent. He even asked me if I still loved him last night and I said, 'Of course I do.. I'm just not affectionate.. What do you want me to do??" To which he replied, "Be more affectionate.." But that's easier said than done. What am I supposed to say, "I love you but the thought of us being intimate makes me want to throw up?" It's very frustrating. He says it's no big deal, but I'm not stupid. I know it's an important part to a relationship.
I was crazy sexual like a couple months ago for about a week.. I'm pretty sure that was the mania taking hold of the reigns.