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jalenga
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- May 12, 2010
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I married a psychopath 4 years ago. The problems started before the marriage but I was naive enough to think things would get better. From day one after the marriage, gradually became more and more abusive, controlling, threatening and violent. He is Mr. Charm in public, intelligent and decieving. He mimicks emotions and claims to be a life coach, yet he has no conscience whatsoever for those he uses for financial gain or sexual gratification or any kind of benefit to him and him alone.
I eventually escaped and and although I have lost all my money and my possessions at least I am able to try to rebuild my life. The whole bullying and mind games were incredible and I feel ill equipped to find help from anywhere with no means to pay for legal help or therapy that I feel I need. I am alone and living day to day. I have no permanent refuge or safe house, as am an expat in third world country and no means to support myself. I am now getting death threats and more and the communications don't let up. He has countless other victims, I believe he has killed before and certain he could and would kill me if he were to find me.
I can't seem to find anyone in my country or where I am now who can help. I know in my research I am just one of many, but where should I go now?
I eventually escaped and and although I have lost all my money and my possessions at least I am able to try to rebuild my life. The whole bullying and mind games were incredible and I feel ill equipped to find help from anywhere with no means to pay for legal help or therapy that I feel I need. I am alone and living day to day. I have no permanent refuge or safe house, as am an expat in third world country and no means to support myself. I am now getting death threats and more and the communications don't let up. He has countless other victims, I believe he has killed before and certain he could and would kill me if he were to find me.
I can't seem to find anyone in my country or where I am now who can help. I know in my research I am just one of many, but where should I go now?