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maddie died

Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

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had a severe relapse during the night
was struggling to breathe and kept collapsing
the vet came out this morning and said it would be kinder to let her go as she was a good age and is suffering and has been for four months with all the eye operations and infections

am broken
 
Passionflower

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I am so sorry . I have a dog and know how much he means to me so I can imagine what you are going through right now.
 
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had a severe relapse during the night
was struggling to breathe and kept collapsing
the vet came out this morning and said it would be kinder to let her go as she was a good age and is suffering and has been for four months with all the eye operations and infections

am broken

I'm so sorry hun

I know when pets go it's sooooo hard

when my dog died I couldn't deal with it.

and for days after I thought I could hear her barking and moving the stairgate

please don't do anything harmfull

take some time to yourself and find something nice to treat yourself

I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we love you and you will get through this with our help.

x
 
Lone_wanderer

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@Fairy Lucretia, Oh honey, I am so so sorry for your loss, I'm shedding a few tears for you and your lovely dog and I'm such a hard faced bastard I haven't cried since I was a child! :(. You can PM me anytime dayor night and Hermit has my new number so you can ring anytime day or night and I truly mean that unless I'm completely zonked on meds and if that's the case leave a voicemail and then ring back a short time later. I am also going to chant the nembutsu when I meditate for the next few weeks for Maddies spirit as she goes through the journey from this life to her next one so it will ease her passage through the Bardo and I will ask Amida Buddha to guide her through the transition and I'm sure she will go to a good place given all the love and support that she has given to you. So sorry Lu, I'm crying my eyes out now for your loss. I care about you and truly love you as a friend and I am here for you. XX.
 
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Lu, Natalie here,


I'm very sorry to hear this news. My sympathy and condolonces, go out to you.


Do keep posting, certainly, and don't do anything drastic, as I said, about something else in relation to you, talk to him Urban this is, let him know how you are actually feeling, and yes, I do relalise, that you must be extremely broken, at this point of time. Do please take extreme care of your self.


Take good care now,


Natalie.
 
Lunar Lady

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Oh my love, I'm so sorry.

You don't need to explain how you feel - I'm in tears for you.

You made the right decision for her and you were a wonderful and brave mum until the last.

Maddie lived a FULL life - she was an old lady that gently closed her eyes and fell asleep. I'm so glad that you were brave and didn't let her suffer.

I will light a candle for her this evening. She was your guardian angel on Earth - now it's time for her to go home and take her place amongst them.

Sending all my love to you and Hermit. Here for you, always. xxx
 
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Lu I'm ever so very sorry. Sending you all the love I can and hugs.
You were the best mummy to her.
 
Mrs Tiggywinkle

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I’m so sorry Lu.:low:...she couldn’t have wished for a better mum than you. I’m upset for you as pets are like our children and it hurts so much. If she was suffering then you made the best decision for her, remember that and she will be at peace now. xx
 
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I'm so sorry to hear the sad news, I know how heart breaking it can be.

I lost a cat that I had for 14 years on the 7th of this month after weeks of her being unwell over Christmas and the New Year, we had her since she was a kitten, so I definitely know how you feel right now.
 
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Oh Lu Im so so sorry, my eyes welled the second I saw the title, so shocked. Its heartbreaking for you, losing your girl. She was so lucky to have known you, as you will say you are to know her. We just cant see them anymore but shes with you xx🕊:hug1:
 
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