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tylerrjdso

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Im 18 years old and have been diagnosed with BPD for a little over a year now.
a year and a half ago i went through a major break up. these days i feel like i still love him and i have an attachment to him despite having no contact.
Am i really in love with him or is this a symptom or effect of my BPD?

Any advice anyone?
 
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Vegay

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Im 18 years old and have been diagnosed with BPD for a little over a year now.
a year and a half ago i went through a major break up. these days i feel like i still love him and i have an attachment to him despite having no contact.
Am i really in love with him or is this a symptom or effect of my BPD?

Any advice anyone?
Hey. I was broken up with in September 2018. I still feel like I love the person. We have zero contact and she has moved on. I don't believe this to be BPD related but that's just my opinion.
 
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Gia Kaysen 02360

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I still care for the ones I’ve been with and it’s very hard. I fell like you have to remember the good times but look forward to future relationships. The person I’m with now is amazing and I’m glad I’m with him. If I didn’t move on I wouldn’t be with him. It’s normal but hard to go through. Look to the future
 
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