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Lost my Oldest Best Friend Yesterday

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in fact 2 women were nasty to me yesterday

one I didn't give a toss about

one I thought was my bestie who proceeded to tell me I'm not her Best Firend she doesn't HAVE one. We have nothin in common (despite the last 35 years) and she doesn't agree with anything I say or anyting I do.

I just don't know what to do. End this farce of a pathetic existence I have because I'm 50 and stuck with myself depite decades of tryin to change

I don't even do anything yet I'm still hated :( the first girl repeated 5 year old gossip to me.

I would NEVER say anything as cruel as that, maybe to an enemy but certainly not to some other person you called a friend.
 
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Hi,
Please don't hurt yourself, I'm sorry about your best friend. I hope you make lots of new friends, that will support and care about you.
I hope things get easier for you
Take care
 
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Hi,
Please don't hurt yourself, I'm sorry about your best friend. I hope you make lots of new friends, that will support and care about you.
I hope things get easier for you
Take care
hi May

I'm not

but its an ongoing battle

fuck this BPD or whatever it is

its like being in a vice

I'm devastated really gutted

I haven't left the house 5 years let alone make friends :(
 
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hi May

I'm not

but its an ongoing battle

fuck this BPD or whatever it is

its like being in a vice

I'm devastated really gutted

I haven't left the house 5 years let alone make friends :(
Hi,
Sorry I didn't realise, I hope something can be done to help you.
Take care
 
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Hi,
Sorry I didn't realise, I hope something can be done to help you.
Take care
no apparently nothng can be done as I refuse the Pills.

I hve to cope alone and god knows ive enough experience in that

it does come to the point however where you wonder when its going to be Too much

its official now. Mental Illness has cost me EVERYTHING. Thre is literally nothin left now, from before. Nothing. Its all been burned and looted even my so-called friendship.
 
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Hi,
I hope the forum helps, sorry there's not more that can be done.
Take care
 
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Sorry you're having a bad time BDU, it's never nice when people we consider friends have a go.

Console yourself with a bit of Aussie sunshine and um 'things'

:hug5:
 
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Sorry you're having a bad time BDU, it's never nice when people we consider friends have a go.

Console yourself with a bit of Aussie sunshine and um 'things'

:hug5:
ironically that was one of the things she had a go at me about

while clutching her whiskey and cigger

me smoking weed...means I'm a Disgusting Person apparently....
 
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ironically that was one of the things she had a go at me about

while clutching her whiskey and cigger

me smoking weed...means I'm a Disgusting Person apparently....
I know many people who smoke weed! Says absolutely nothing about the person.

You just smoke if it helps.
 
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I know many people who smoke weed! Says absolutely nothing about the person.

You just smoke if it helps.
yeah

docs have given me valium too

that helps also as long as I stay indoors and don't go and freak out somewhere inappropriate
 
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Modern life can turn people into assholes, especially and perhaps because of the careerist types. Over inflated egos, self pity, and they are generally just boring as a hell. Oh yeah they are too special to be your friend.
 
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Modern life can turn people into assholes, especially and perhaps because of the careerist types. Over inflated egos, self pity, and they are generally just boring as a hell. Oh yeah they are too special to be your friend.
yes

this is what shes been saying for a hwile now

>>>You associate with scum<<<

ironic, no? they may be Scum but at least they have compassion.
 
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yes

this is what shes been saying for a hwile now

>>>You associate with scum<<<

ironic, no? they may be Scum but at least they have compassion.
yeah kind people are the best. Sometimes they can shock you with how nice they are, especially if you have been hanging around with assholes too long
 
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yeah kind people are the best. Sometimes they can shock you with how nice they are, especially if you have been hanging around with assholes too long
she actually told me a while back, she wouldn't give a shit if her own kids died.

:(
 
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