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tophat7483

tophat7483

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Hello everyone. I'm not sure where else to go with this, but lately I've been very confused. I'm not sure who I am or what I stand for. I keep fluctuating in terms of personality, beliefs, and values depending on who I'm around. I'm tired of feeling so inconsistent, I'm tired of being exhausted by every little thing. I'm not sure where else to go.
 
Keesha

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Maybe decide who you want to be and stay true to yourself.
 
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Could be a lack of confidence. Be proud. You're special just as you are. 🙂
 
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hey, @tophat7483, just wondering if you have a diagnosis/diagnoses you are working with? I know with borderline personality disorder that I have, I often have these same feelings of not trusting my own decisions, feelings, thoughts, etc., like they fluctuate so much that I don't trust myself. I end up never being able to make big decisions, never feeling like I really know myself. So I can relate to what you're saying, and just wanted to check w you. Really wish you luck on this, it is so damn frustrating. xx
 
tophat7483

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hey, @tophat7483, just wondering if you have a diagnosis/diagnoses you are working with? I know with borderline personality disorder that I have, I often have these same feelings of not trusting my own decisions, feelings, thoughts, etc., like they fluctuate so much that I don't trust myself. I end up never being able to make big decisions, never feeling like I really know myself. So I can relate to what you're saying, and just wanted to check w you. Really wish you luck on this, it is so damn frustrating. xx
I questioned having BPD before, but never followed through. Mostly due to finances and lack of transportation to see a therapist. I'm pretty sure I have a personality disorder of some sort but just don't know what exactly. Thank you for your kindness, much love and appreciation.
 
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