- Oct 27, 2020
- Orleans vermont.
On this one I think we will have to agree to disagree. I still think once asertive fails demanding followed by cut ties is the way to go. Nevertheless this does reinforce to me at least that I'm still evil and maybe my advice is wrong, maybe my beast has to much control, I cant really say. If this life is indeed hell like I believe I'm right where I should be.To tell someone to “shut the hell up or get back out of the car and walk” is abusive language. Standing up for yourself would be for a person to assertively say something like, “I don’t appreciate your choice of words right now or your tone with me. If you don’t change I won’t be able to drive you anyplace anymore. Your example are aggressive words that are abusive. My example is assertive. You can still get the job done without turning into an abuser like you suggest. xo, j