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Loosing love



Well-known member
Apr 14, 2019
So I saw this movie last night, and the girl had a boyfriend named Y and then she met this other guy named X and ended up falling in love with him instead and leaving her current boyfriend Y. I’m scared of that happening to me.

I love my boyfriend so much I’ve been with him over a year. I’m scared of meeting someone new, and falling in love with them or having a connection with that person. I never want to leave my boyfriend, he is my absolute everything and I tell him that everyday. I want to marry him some day, I don’t want to loose him.

Are these thoughts part of my OCD/ ROCD? Should I just ignore the bad thoughts?