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Looking to make friends with bpd

Lottielove89

Lottielove89

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Hi,

I’m new here. My whole life I’ve felt alone, like home isn’t really home for me.

I was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago along with suffering with anxiety, depression and ocd since 11 years old.

I’m now 29 and am bored of feeling alone, I have people, family, but no one really gets me because they don’t understand bpd.

I would love to find people who get me or at least understand a little.

I love talking and having conversations about anything and everything and if there is anyone out there looking for a friend, here I am :)
 
Urban Hermit

Urban Hermit

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Hello and :welcome: to the forum, I hope you find this a safe sharing space X

The community here is very friendly and supportive , or at least I have found it to be so X
 
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Harp

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Hi,

I’m new here. My whole life I’ve felt alone, like home isn’t really home for me.

I was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago along with suffering with anxiety, depression and ocd since 11 years old.

I’m now 29 and am bored of feeling alone, I have people, family, but no one really gets me because they don’t understand bpd.

I would love to find people who get me or at least understand a little.

I love talking and having conversations about anything and everything and if there is anyone out there looking for a friend, here I am :)
Hey I’m also looking at making new friends who suffer from bpd:) i also feel like as much as people want to understand bpd sometimes they just get tired of dealing with me, and they get overwhelmed because they dont have the illness, so they don’t really know what it feels like.
 
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Allyalz

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Hello! I totally get it’s difficult. I would love to make some friends too 🙃
 
Lottielove89

Lottielove89

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Hello! I totally get it’s difficult. I would love to make some friends too 🙃
It is difficult! You’d think with the amount of people in the world that you’d be able to find someone lol. Where abouts are you from?
 
Lottielove89

Lottielove89

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Hey I’m also looking at making new friends who suffer from bpd:) i also feel like as much as people want to understand bpd sometimes they just get tired of dealing with me, and they get overwhelmed because they dont have the illness, so they don’t really know what it feels like.

Yea it is difficult at times. Would just be nice to find someone who knows what it’s like.
Where abouts are you from?
 
LucyInTheSkyWithDiamonds

LucyInTheSkyWithDiamonds

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Hi,

I’m new here. My whole life I’ve felt alone, like home isn’t really home for me.

I was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago along with suffering with anxiety, depression and ocd since 11 years old.

I’m now 29 and am bored of feeling alone, I have people, family, but no one really gets me because they don’t understand bpd.

I would love to find people who get me or at least understand a little.

I love talking and having conversations about anything and everything and if there is anyone out there looking for a friend, here I am :)
Hi :) I was recently diagnosed with BPD as well. I feel the same way and I also struggle with suicidal thoughts. If you wanna talk, feel free, I like talking to new people and also look for new friends :)
 
Lottielove89

Lottielove89

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Hi :) I was recently diagnosed with BPD as well. I feel the same way and I also struggle with suicidal thoughts. If you wanna talk, feel free, I like talking to new people and also look for new friends :)
Hi how are you? How has your day been? We’re abouts are you from? ☺
 
x3n

x3n

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Hi. Nice to meet you. Let me approach the topic from a different angle. First of all, you need to stop calling yourself "a person with BPD". Why would you even want to label yourself like that? You u are a human, a normal person, just like everyone else, therefore you need to look at yourself this way. Have you ever looked at wikipedia? There is only one human specie listed and its called homo sapiens, not homo sapiens with BPD. BPD is not a thing that defines you. You are not a person with BPD, you are a person that suffers from BPD. I know it might be hard, but you need to look at yourself like at a normal human being. (which you are) Making friends is all about finding the right person, its not hard, but it might take time. Take care, please. Message me if you want to talk.
 
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