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I’m 41 now n haven’t had a serious relationship since my diagnose. Looking back i have some real regrets. Wish I would done things differently so I wouldn’t be alone. Now at this part of life I’m wrapping it all up n I had a long mental health journey. Also in high school I fell head over heels with a girl! Things were so simple times back then !! Please respond n let me know what’s important at a older stage life of relationships. An give me one regret looking back in life ??
 
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One regret of mine is being in a relationship with my second ex but also being in a relationship with my first ex.
You are still young (in my opinion) and there is plenty of time left. I hope you find someone.
 
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Just seemed like the magic i once had has never happened n I missed out on a beautiful life ? So many years have gone by an most people are In later stage of life! What sucks the most is that the girl I probably lived a great fulfilling life prob with house kids car n money? Which I have none of but what I do have is I still got that same love in my heart that I never left go of. So I don’t have the materialistic things but I have a golden heart. Sucks for myself not hers I hope people are happy
 
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Nah in grand scheme of things life is good n maybe that type of thinking is toxic!! So everyone do the exact opposite cause there’s my life out there that we can look forward too 😊😊
 
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Maybe it didn’t happen cause it wasn’t meant too happen ? Maybe cause all my alone years had really taught me something that will enhance my quality of life !
 
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Perhaps romance will find you instead of you finding it? Maybe when you least expect it, something happens.
 
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I think about the past all the time going back a few decades. Not sure why.
 
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Is it good too look back in the past?? I feel like I lost so much opportunity in a lot of life’s aspects? I also feel like I was left behind from friends n people in general . Also feel like everybody just takes what they can with no regards too hurting people? But what I got from u guys was so helpful n I appreciate it more then you’ll know 😀😀
 
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Where should look for romance?? I’m a good person I love my family n I work real hard too maintain my mental health. Things just don’t fall my way ever it seems. I also think when people are grabbing everything from others at a younger age I had issues during that period. Guess I’ll continue too helping myself n touching people around me in positive manner?
 
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