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Ramson mash

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Love you all. Im learning about borderline personality disoder. From people i know and on here. i would like to get to know this person who has it. I always see her good side and her personality is great or atleast it seems to me, however she is struggling and i dont know what to say. I say the wrong things, its a curse which started a long time ago but i want her and everyone to know that i want to send love and wish you all a happy life.
 
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sarah jane

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I know how you feel
 
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Girl interupted

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You are loved.
 
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Ana

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The end result of the journey is what matters, the sufferance in the process will pass just like a kidney stone.
 
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Jules5

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Life has crooked roads and I know yours will be straight here soon. Hang in there and wait for it. Lots of Hugs
 
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Lora

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Don't run before you able to walk take each moment slowly with kindness 😊stay with your thoughts in the here and now as that's what matters- the past must stay where it belongs to allow us space to enjoy the future
 
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Girl interupted

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You are not defined by your history. Instead you are in charge of the footprints you make on freshly fallen snow.
 
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Girl interupted

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When nobody will do it for you, you have to do it for yourself.

No. It’s not selfish.

Everyone in your life will benefit.
 
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TheBoyWithAWanderingMind

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This thread is for positive reinforcement. Add a random message of encouragement. Not to anyone specific, just strength when you have it. There will be times that you don’t.
In case your mind is playing a trick on you: You matter. You're enough. You're loved. Your presence in this world makes a difference, whether you see it or not.

:loveshower:
 
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Lunus

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This thread is for positive reinforcement. Add a random message of encouragement. Not to anyone specific, just strength when you have it. There will be times that you don’t.
Be kind to yourself
Be kind to yourself
Be kind to yourself
Be kind to yourself
Be kind to yourself

:hug::hug::hug::thanks::hug::hug::hug:
 
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megirl

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Do be kind to yourself, treat yourself,
Sometimes the best thing is to say its ok to not be ok. You are allowed to take time out,
The most important thing I have to say is mental Illness is that an illness, like any physical illness.
Like one nurse told me its like a brain injury and can take some time to get the right combo of meds to find the right balance
 
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megirl

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Hang in there life is worth it, it truly is x
 
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