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.I've recently been diagnosed with BPD , at the moment every day is a struggle so I'm taking oxazapam to try and reduce my symptoms an just get through the day .

I'm still trying to work out my triggers . I think my husband is one ....I'm convinced he's cheating on me constantly .....it's emotionally draining and I'm I'm turmoil everyday . I've heard voices at night when we've been in bed , he's says it's all in my head and is not real...it seems very real to me .

This morning he said he has lost his simcard and needs another one and that he's going to be uncontactable today ...I don't know what's real and what's not anymore . I cry all the time .

Last week I tried an attempt to harm myself which resulted in me getting put in hospital and have an emergency assessment ....and I don't know what to do anymore ....if I'm sick or if my husband is actually with someone else .
Some advice if any can be given for my situation would be more than appreciated .

I'm sorry it's so long winded but I need some help from like minded people who also understand my condition. Has anybody else had experience s similar to mine ? .

Thank you for listening
 
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I also don't know whether to leave m husband if I think he's a trigger and lying to me all the time or if it's just symptoms of my BPD ...please help I really need some advice x
 
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