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Mar 5, 2016
Hi All,

I cant go in to full details but been questioned by the Police and let go and I have now been in a family court accused of hurting a child and my partner has also. (The little girl is her child) - I've now been told my partner is now saying she is scared of me but I believe she is doing it to get her daughter back as they told her she may not do. I have proof of texts from her and valentines card so she is lying. I was already struggling with the fact what they are accusing us off and after hearing what she is now saying I have had to go to the doctors and they have put me on antidepressants. I haven't ate anything in 5 days and I still don't have an appetite. I feel like I've lost my family and that I have been betrayed by the person I love. I never hurt her child, I still don't believe my partner or ex-partner did anything.

Anyone got any advice or been through a situation close to mine?

I'm struggling to cope with it all.

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Crazy Lady In Stanton

Well-known member
Aug 29, 2015
Stanton, CA
I can't imagine the Hell you must be going through. When I was sixteen, my employer's husband came on to me rather aggressively. Of course, I turned him down. The next thing I knew, I was being accused of molesting their sons. It was absurd. I was a virgin. I had never had sexual contact with anyone, much less a child. I was humiliated by those slandering creeps. I only got them to shut up by telling them I would complain to the elders of my church, and if necessary, I would sue them for slander. I would strongly suggest you get a good defense lawyer. I would also suggest you get another lawyer and sue the people accusing you. You should not allow yourself to be the victim of a witch hunt.