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Sapphirepenguin9900
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So earlier this year I managed to work myself up into a right state thinking my boyfriend was talking to one of my friends online because they were coming online at the same time. This was someone who he would never be interested in but my head wouldn’t let it go. I ended up deleting that friend, and it was probably the best decision I could make (we didn’t talk anymore anyway)
Then of course a month back I start noticing it happen with another friend, this time a close one I can’t just delete. Again no reason they would talk. Then my friend goes and adds my boyfriend on Facebook so of course I’m basically dissociating at this point over it. Instantly message my friend like “Urm what’s going on?” She’s said she adds all her friends boyfriends on Facebook and she added him when the got together and he only just accepted. Sent me a screenshot of the notification and said she has no interest in him and would never do that to me. Haven’t heard from her since but then again she has never spoken to me much. I asked my boyfriend and he said she added him 2 days prior and he seemed to find it odd. So I just kinda let it go.
Now I’m worrying again because me and my boyfriend usually send memes back and forth all day on Facebook. All of a sudden he has just stopped doing this. So of course my stupid head is like “well what if he has a new account to talk to her on and he’s always logged into that now”. So that’s were I’m at, I’m becoming increasingly stressed over this and can’t even tell of this is my stupid head making stuff up anymore someone help.
I really want to ask him why he isn’t using it anymore to talk to me but I don’t want to come across clingy or babyish. I feel guilty for having these thoughts as well because I really do love him.
Then of course a month back I start noticing it happen with another friend, this time a close one I can’t just delete. Again no reason they would talk. Then my friend goes and adds my boyfriend on Facebook so of course I’m basically dissociating at this point over it. Instantly message my friend like “Urm what’s going on?” She’s said she adds all her friends boyfriends on Facebook and she added him when the got together and he only just accepted. Sent me a screenshot of the notification and said she has no interest in him and would never do that to me. Haven’t heard from her since but then again she has never spoken to me much. I asked my boyfriend and he said she added him 2 days prior and he seemed to find it odd. So I just kinda let it go.
Now I’m worrying again because me and my boyfriend usually send memes back and forth all day on Facebook. All of a sudden he has just stopped doing this. So of course my stupid head is like “well what if he has a new account to talk to her on and he’s always logged into that now”. So that’s were I’m at, I’m becoming increasingly stressed over this and can’t even tell of this is my stupid head making stuff up anymore someone help.
I really want to ask him why he isn’t using it anymore to talk to me but I don’t want to come across clingy or babyish. I feel guilty for having these thoughts as well because I really do love him.
