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Nj235

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Just after some other opions please, I only have one friend.
Basically me and my bf had an argument last week (nothing new there at the moment!) this was in the evening, so the next day I text him apologising and asking to sort it out, his reply was, if u don't stop texting me I will come up to your work and smash your phone with a hammer.
Is this just anger? Is there more to it?
 

MarlieeB

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Wow...

Of course I don't know the circumstances but that is a bit of a extreme reaction...
 
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How much do you text him?
 
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Nj235

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We do on average text a fair bit just cos we both can in our jobs. This particular day though cos he was in a bad mood I'd only text a couple of times
 
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That doesn't sound normal to me, no.
But having said that, we all do have bad days and say things we later regret.

Does he behave in other ways that are concerning or upsetting to you?
If I were you, i'd just keep a close eye on things and listen to your gut instinct.
Whilst all kinds of relationships go through difficult times, if you're unhappy and feel that things just aren't right, it may be worth really thinking about whether or not this is a relationship you want to be in.
 

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