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is it ever ok?

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Spidergirl

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Can I ask a question? At what age is it not ok for young children to explore and be curious about each others bodies? When is it not ok? Is it ever innocent?
 
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Hi Spidergirl

This is a very difficult question. People mature at different speeds and what may seem innocent to one person will mean something different to another.

I'd be curious to ask why you're asking this question, though I realise that will probably open up a can of worms for you.

Either way, if you need to talk, there's plenty of us here on the forum to talk to. :hug:

Hope you're well. x
 
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I am very mature for my age and started being curious about the other sex's bodies around 9 or 10. It was completely innocent. Dont know if that helps. But I think its natural to be curious at that age.
 
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I think a person's innocence can vary due to their upbringing and their exposure to sexually things.

I had seen porn when I was 6 :/ I stumbled across it when I was flicking through tv channels.
I was very curious about the human body from then on. Although I didn't see a man's body until I was like 13.
 
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Hi and thanks for the replies. I guess I'm thinking if a young child is exploring and touches another, it is always inappropriate but, when is it too far? Is it something they grow out of?
 
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When I was about 5/6 there was a guy my age who used to touch me down there during maths. I've never been able to work out what to make of the whole thing to be honest. I think it's more common than people like to think but I just really do not know what to make of the whole situation.

I think young children have sexual pleasure and obviously instinct tells them to act on this sometimes. They don't yet understand the idea of boundries. It's a complicated issue :/
 
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lostminty

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I remember playing doctor with a friend when i was maybe 7, but i think there were times earlier than that too. as long as its with someone about your age who hasn't been interferred with i don't think there is any age.
 
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