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Im bed, alone, where I coud just stay forever without any shit.

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ziedite

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Bed... under the duvet is often a nice place to be... We get it. What's up tonight?
 
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Just had enough. Nothing is going right. My job which I was told they weren't happy with me after 11 weeks and no explanation as to why they are not happy. My eye has been operated on twice this year and my temporary artificial eye is not comfortable. It will be another 3 months of discomfort. And my relationship is rubbish, no love or support. My idiot neighbour has moved back in, making noise and causing a nuisance. I just cannot win.
 
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Ooh.. not a good combination of stuff. Perhaps you could address them all separately to make it all more manageable? Like the job stuff first? Ask for a detailed explanation on why the dissatisfaction?
 
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I did ask for an explanation, they wouldn't give me an explanation. They made me take 5 exams online for members of staff. Not a good company to work for.
 
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Have they given you a months notice or just a week. You definatly need to know what the reason is. I’m not saying you have but there might be something you’ve done and not realised it, but they should tell you. Hope you can sort out the other things going on in your life:hug:
 
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No. No reason. No offer of a weeks notice or anything. Didn't even offer me a seat, didn't offer me a chance to collect any belongings. Nothing. Surely if I had made a mistake they could have discussed it with me. I have done the wages for three months and never made a mistake, I have found vans running around without mot's, no insurance, they have got me to sit 5 exams for operatives on a computer, I've gone over and above my duties.
 
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Thank you. It means a lot to me right now. I am not feeling great.

I have battled so much lately. My eye operations, my esophogus problem, my anxiety. I had agoraphobia 28 years ago which I got over. I just cannot win.
 
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Fancyharm

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Thank you. The sun's gone in and outside feels darker, like I feel. I know I will feel better soon but right now I feel rubbish.
 
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