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I'm a beta loser

BetaMale

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I watched this video yesterday and I realized I must accept what I am, namely a beta loser.


I say so because:

1) People have said demeaning things to me numerous times in the past.
2) I have a severe mental illness.
3) I'm a 30-year-old virgin

I'm done trying (pretending) to be alpha. Now that I've embraced the fact that I'm a beta loser, there is no more cognitive dissonance, the ruminations are almost gone and I actually feel much better!

What do you guys think? (Sorry for such a self-deprecating post but what else can you expect from a beta loser?)
 
BetaMale

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I guess no one cares...proving my point!
 
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spacingspaces

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I watched this video yesterday and I realized I must accept what I am, namely a beta loser.


I say so because:

1) People have said demeaning things to me numerous times in the past.
2) I have a severe mental illness.
3) I'm a 30-year-old virgin

I'm done trying (pretending) to be alpha. Now that I've embraced the fact that I'm a beta loser, there is no more cognitive dissonance, the ruminations are almost gone and I actually feel much better!

What do you guys think? (Sorry for such a self-deprecating post but what else can you expect from a beta loser?)
The whole beta/alpha thing is BS bro. Look at all the high achievers out there who would be considered "beta" by gym bros or whatever if they seen them on the street. My bet is that you are a sensitive guy who has great intuition. That's a strength. Most of the people who are seen as alphas are actually incredibly insecure. I've known people like that my whole life. I tried to be one before too and it is the most unfulfilling goal i've ever tried to achieve. Sensitive people are often seen as being beta because typical meatheads and bimbos can't understand their complex nature and you know how humans react to things they can't understand. Most film directors that direct all the big movies you watch or the authors who write all the great books that you read are sensitive souls. Creativity comes with sensitivity. You are in a dark place at the moment and it's very easy to beat yourself up when you are in that place and it's also very easy to convince yourself that you are justified in beating yourself up. You are not alone in your struggle and you are not a beta male or an alpha male. You are just you. I am just me. That girl in the video seems to be extremely insecure. Would you even want to sleep with a girl like that? I sure wouldn't.
 
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Laudanum

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I wouldn't worry about the opinion of one airhead Russian woman if i were you!

Maybe google David DeAngelo if you want tips to attract women.
 
midnightphoenix

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I'm not a guy but i just wanted to say that you are not a beta male, you cannot help having severe mental illness, you are very brave :hug:

that woman sounds as shallow as hell and i have not even watched the video, i dont like the look of that woman tbh :hug: she sounds like a stuck up turd without me even playing the video :hug:
 
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Ramson mash

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Dont watch that....watch this...
 
BetaMale

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Thanks for the replies, guys.
As you can see, I've changed my username as I think it describes me better than "Skynet" did.
 
Parayana

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I preferred Skynet, I liked the Terminator reference. As for that brain deadwoman in the video your a lot more intelligent, sensitive and caring than she is. I wouldn't sleep with someone who is obviously as stupid as she is, she'll be advocating eugenics next and look where that got us in the early part of the 20th century. I know your into secular meditation but maybe you should look at some of the Buddha's teching on the worthlessness of worldly achievements.
 
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Ozymandias

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Honestly, I think that woman in the video is sick in the head, hates men, and consequently derives pleasure from trying to make males feel like the OP did in his first post.

I mean, seriously, it's a little bit unhealthy for someone to put so much time and effort into spewing such bile, and also to have such a need for other people to hear it.
 
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iWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH2

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You are not a beta male. I wish you would change your name back to Skynet. Sorry I didn't read the entire thread or watch the video.
 
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iWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH2

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All human beings are born equal. I don't care if you are male female, brown white, or anything. Humans need to get over this dominance submission, alpha and beta crap. We all deserve equal respect by default. I'm unwatching this thread as it is starting to trigger me. Since men think they can be alphas of other men then they must think they are alphas of all women. Sorry off topic.:cry:
 
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