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Chrisy
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6 months ago i met a girl who i really liked and ever since then we have been in a relationship. The problem is i don't look forward to seing her anymore or enjoy her company very much anymore. She said at the start of the relationship she had a telephone addiction with her last bf and that her last bf cheated on her and punched her several times, i understood that and accepted there could be some baklash from that, what i didin't realise is how much backlash. We've only had 2 days apart in 6 months, she claims shes paranoid i'm going to cheat on her, i've stressed so many times to her that i would never cheat on her, but she doesn't seem to listen. we can spend 10 hours today everyday and at the end of the night she wants to spend another hour on the phone talking about how she doesn't want me to cheat on her and how she thinks i am, this is the height of her conversation, for 6 months all she has really talked about is this everday all day, she wants to know my every movement, shes so possessed by this she even follws me into the kitchen when i'm making food. She took my phone of me and when i do have it she asks to see it, she checks there are no womens numbers on it. She can also be very aggressive and angry she constantly argues with her family she can start a fight in an empty house, she wont hesitaite to have a go at me and make it look like i've done something wrong when in actual fact i'm completely innocent. If a girl passes she either accuses me of fancying them or asks me if i think there pretty, she then takes the huff. She has me so upset and thrustrated i sometimes just sitdown and do nothing, she then says i look in a bad mood and demands i cheer up, she shouts in my face until i do so. In her last job she was told to work weekends so she quit the job because she wouldn't be able to see me as much, after known her for 2 weeks she had me stay over at her parents house where she lives, ever since then i have to stayed there every weekend, no consideration that i might have objectiones, i feel like a whipping horse i have no life anynmore shes constantly there telling me how i feel, what i want what she thinks i think. I do love this girl and she loves me but i'm afraid i'm gonna have to break this relationship up if she doesn't get help, shes been saying for months she's going to get help but so far she hasen't. A few times i've threatened to break up with her because of the stress shers causing me she would then burst into tears and beg me to stay, i didin't want to lose her so i stayed but i don't know how much more i can take even though i love her and care so much for her; the fact is i've had an argument with her nearly everyday of the 6 month relationship. Nearly everytime i go into the gym she accuisses other girls of looking at me and says i'm looking back when i'm not then sghe runs of crying because we have an argument or she thinks people are looking at her, shes trying to isolate me from everybody, espeacially my friends who i never see now because of her, shed have me not work and be with her 24/7, she threatens to kill herself when i say we've broken up.
Thanks for reading, please any advice would be great!
Thanks for reading, please any advice would be great!
