
Wynn
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- Oct 20, 2008
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Looking for people's opinions please?
Left a post a couple of days ago, saying that my friend (that I have been trying to patch things up with), has now decided, out of the blue, that he is no longer talking to me. Things had been going slightly better I thought, before the summer, so this came as a shock. He refuses to tell me why he's made this decision, or what I've done to upset him (I've never really known what I did in the first place to cause him to get angry either).
I'm feeling really shamed, angry that he chose to hurt me, but mostly sad - I feel like I must be a really *!*$ person, and I don't even know why or how.
I think our friendship is probably now over, but I would really like to know what his reasons are for not talking/ what I've done to upset him. Am I being unreasonable?
Left a post a couple of days ago, saying that my friend (that I have been trying to patch things up with), has now decided, out of the blue, that he is no longer talking to me. Things had been going slightly better I thought, before the summer, so this came as a shock. He refuses to tell me why he's made this decision, or what I've done to upset him (I've never really known what I did in the first place to cause him to get angry either).
I'm feeling really shamed, angry that he chose to hurt me, but mostly sad - I feel like I must be a really *!*$ person, and I don't even know why or how.

I think our friendship is probably now over, but I would really like to know what his reasons are for not talking/ what I've done to upset him. Am I being unreasonable?